20 Questions To Ask For Deep Meaningful Conversations


  1. What is God teaching you?

  2. What are you currently being saved from?

  3. What is God saying to you?

  4. What have you been reading in the bible?

  5. What have you been praying about?

  6. Are you encouraged or discouraged? Why?

  7. Have you been connecting with and enjoying God? If so, how? If not, why?

  8. On a scale of 1 to 10, how’s your marriage? (Ask both spouses and then compare answers)

  9. How is it going being single?

  10. How’s your dating relationship been?

  11. How’s parenting been going?

  12. How are thing’s going financially?

  13. How’s it going bringing the kingdom of God to work?

  14. Have you had any recent opportunities to share the gospel?

  15. Have you gotten in any good conversations with anyone lately?

  16. Have you had any dreams from God recently?  If so, what do you think they mean?

  17. How did you come to put your faith in Jesus?

  18. What makes you come alive?

  19. What’s your vision/calling?

  20. Is there anything I can pray for you for?


Do you know of any other good questions to help stir up deep meaningful conversations?

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About Josh Christophersen

Josh is a software engineer, church planter, and blogger with a passion for helping people do their life well. He lives in KC with his wife and 7 kids.

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  1. l

    Jeepers Creepers, where’d you get those (fill in the blank)?

    REALLY, I dig this post :{()

  2. 1. What can’t you stop thinking about lately?
    2. What’s affected you in your spirit significantly lately?
    3. What’s a “hi and low” of your day been?
    4. What’s alive in you, right now?
    5. What’s something that would make your life more wonderful that I could do for you?

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